Madam Lydia, a Nigerian lady who goes by the name Madam Lydia, has offered some advice to women who want to have their cake and eat it too.
She said that women who have told a man that they do not like him should no longer accept money or gifts from him after they have rejected him.
According to her, such dislike a woman has for a man who made his intentions known, should be extended to every aspect of her link or interaction with the man, hence why she should not accept anything from him.
She tweet :
“If you don’t like someone don’t collect gifts and cash from them. Period!
Extend that dislike everywhere”
See the post:
Her comment was greeted with varying reactions from men and women.
@JOEvibez__ said; The dislike ends with the person abeg.. Let’s not drag innocent gifts into the squabble..
@EmerianMimi; So I should reject a whole money too cz I don’t like Dem. is Dem I don’t like not der gift
@psycho_berries; If I don’t like a person I would decline even an outing
@Anikingg; After collecting gifts and he requests for sex as his own gift,,,, she’ll be like “I’m not that kinda girl” ,,,” is it because you gave me some gifts???” Werey,,,,, your papa no dey give you gifts?????
@akudo43 replied @Anikingg; He should also ask for material gifts from her, or did he make it plain to her that the gifts where for s*ex prior to giving them to her????